"Throughout life, everyone is going to come across the “oh shit” moments of how to deal and cope with un-preferred circumstances. Like when shit hits the fan, your default response becomes, 'motherfuck this!', 'motherfuck that!'. Sometimes it feels like throwing yourself headfirst into the dumpster fires of human dramas, as an inevitable consequence of living life. Yet, at the same time, a necessary experience to help transcend the stagnating patterns that run us. So today we are going to talk about one of the most endearing aspects of the spiritual journey. The art of dealing with shit storms.
For anyone familiar with the self-help world, there is the popular idea of 'positive thinking', where one chooses to focus only on what they want and desire out of a situation and having that manifest, while systematically putting the kabosh on whatever thoughts, feelings, or ideas that are deemed as 'negative'. This idea was fairly popularized by the likes of Napoleon Hill, along with countless other self help authors during the 20th century. Now there is nothing necessarily wrong with this idea, as it has been responsible for helping many pull themselves from a place of victimhood into a place of empowerment, which is always the first step in mastering one’s reality. However, as you continue to progress in your journey, you will come to a point where certain truths of the past will slowly become irrelevant, as your mind slowly evolves and becomes more receptive to new ideas that were not previously within the bounds of acceptable reality. This is why dogmatic thinking and the act of putting certain teachers and ideas on a pedestal, can be the most dangerous thing for your growth.
Going back to the idea of positive thinking and manifestation. Why has this only seemed to work for very few people? With all of the Tony Robbins and Law of Attraction workshops out there, you’d expect everyone to be rolling in the dough and living the life of their dreams, yet this doesn’t seem to be the case. Now, if you are one of those people who have been using affirmations everyday such as 'I am rich and wealthy', or 'I am a confident, attractive person', then ask yourself, from what place are these affirmations coming from? Or better yet, what is your relationship with the affirmations that are driving you to use them in the first place?
If you are using wealth affirmations for no other reason than the fact that your bank account is on the verge of flat lining, then you know your relationship with the affirmation is one of lack. So in polarity, your affirmation will only serve to reinforce the fact that you are dead broke and 'don’t have', since you are trying to convince yourself of something, not out of authenticity or true abundance, but from a place of limitation where you are trying to copy and emulate something some 'self-help d-bag' said, who likely has never been successful in anything outside of selling advice and courses and telling people why they are broken.
So what’s important to understand about creating abundance and flow in life, is that highly intentioned thought, and tendencies to control and measure outcomes, naturally catapult you into the energizing of lack, simply due to polarity. When you declare an intention into the future such as, 'I’m going to make $20 grand more this year than the last', or 'I’m going to increase my client base by X amount', you are essentially declaring that you are lacking and incomplete in the now, which is why you require goal setting and intention in the first place. So don’t be surprised when you start taking action towards the outcome and end up getting thrown neck deep in a shitty experience full of effort and pain. Unfortunately, this seems to be the story of everyone’s life on this planet.
So if you are tired of living by that paradigm, then here is an offering:
Accept and allow everything and anything that comes into your awareness no matter how shitty or wonderful.
Instead of living from a place of intentioned thought and the need to control exactly what happens in your life, live from a place of unconditional surrender and acceptance, as this completely transcends polarity.
'But Roxie, I see how acceptance can bring about peace of mind, but if I don’t intend or focus on what I want in life, then how will the universe know to give me my miracles, rather than a life full of misery and frustration?'
Well young jedi, you are asking the wrong question. The universe and your entire reality consists of nothing but unconditional love. Therefore, your higher self is constantly pulling in miracles towards you on its own, to fulfill every desire you can possibly conceive of, but the fractalized portion of your mind (a.k.a. ego) has a tendency to either block or misinterpret the miracles coming your way. So the key here is to just get out of your own way and let your higher mind lay things out for you effortlessly.
“So how do I get out of my own way?”
Once again, the key is to simply accept and allow everything that flows into your awareness. If your boss starts acting like an asshole all of a sudden, you just simply accept and allow him to be an asshole without any intention or desire to try to change, control, or teach him a lesson.
The act of allowing and accepting has a dismantling effect on the lack based vibration you initially define into the object, allowing the space necessary for the miracles to flow through and express.
So you see, the use of intentional thought will slow down the process of achieving flow and abundance. On a practical level, all this really translates to is that you should only act in the most authentic ordinary way to yourself. Let every moment be complete in of itself without creating any goals or intentions that need to be achieved in the future, due to the assumed lack in the now. Once again, choose only what you want to do and surrender to your own nature, and the entire universe will yield.
I explore this topic in more detail here in the following videos:
Effortless Gods with Ocyphius
Get out of your own way! with Jane Roberts
Have you ever had one of those family members or relatives who always spouts out about the news every time you see each other? You meet for dinner and as you are pouring a drink, dad starts running his mouth on the latest shooting, or the most recent disease sweeping through the country and how you better be worried because you may be next…. And of course since he heard this on CNN, this must be the law of the universe.
We’ve all experienced someone like this in our lives at one point or another where someone takes the “fear porn” or any other limitation based belief that they heard from someone else and then attempt to project that onto the rest of their reality including you. When you have a situation where much of mainstream society is buying into the same nonsense, you naturally run into the “lemming” scenario where everyone leaps onto the same sinking ship almost as if Chipotles was doing a $1 burrito special (pretty tempting, I know).
So I will throw out a few more examples for measure:
So you get the idea. Someone pukes out a coveted belief system, and you respecting everyone else’s ideas and truths except your own, you accept them as your reality. Now this is where a lot of people end up digging themselves into a hole in life. They covet and adopt belief systems of limitation only to replicate that into their own lives by validating and accepting it. But amidst all the distraction, there is something you need to remember:
Your reality is the result of what mental constructs you choose to validate
Echoing thoughts from Bashar, there are billions of parallel realities and earths that you are constantly moving into. With every choice you make in the present, you take yourself into a parallel earth most conducive to your current beliefs. So in other words, if you believe the world is a loving place with plenty of abundance, you will take yourself to a parallel earth where that is the case. However if you keep validating constructs like the Illuminati controlling the world, or the economy being on the verge of collapse and catastrophe, you will also take yourself closer into those realities through your choice of belief. Believing is seeing my friends.
I get questions all the time from spiritualists on how to clear our negative karma or why XYZ childhood event happened and what meaning they are “supposed” to pull from that. The truth is that Karma doesn’t exist unless we say it does, likewise, a certain childhood event doesn’t really mean anything unless you assign it meaning and further validate that. We go through life picking up and coveting belief systems from other people and so the big hurdle in our spiritual journey is shedding all the limitation based constructs we’ve validated into our lives.
So therefore, the economy isn’t necessarily going to crash. The world isn’t going to move into World War 3, and likewise, karma doesn’t have to exist unless you validate it. By simply choosing not to validate the constructs thrown at us, we allow the space necessary to choose our own truths that serve us. However, by placing value and worth on all the beliefs that don’t serve us, we are effectively shooting ourselves in the foot. And just like every other painful aspect of life, you can only pull the trigger on yourself so many times before the comfort of choosing familiar constructs accompanied by excruciating pain and disempowerment become outweighed by choosing your joy.
The choice is yours my friends. Choose your own truths, and not someone else’s.
Also, make sure to check out our latest video where I get interviewed on this topic as well as other teachings!
Your frequency measures high and low through the perceiving mind. The perceiving mind is your “filter”. It moves the frequency higher or lower, then the emotions are experienced. Once the filter is removed, the emotions are not experienced with the idea of the same frequency. It will remain at it's natural state of harmony.
The frequency of interpretation will always happen. You’re always going to have how you bend the light. That’s the frequency.
We will never be interpreters of the exact same reality, that is impossible. Any status quo in any individual leads to a limitation of permanency.
If you have a belief that you don’t even recognize as a belief, then you are that frequency without choice. When you have the idea “why am I doing this to myself?”, then, you become the frequency of choice. That, then, becomes a choice of recognition. You have now a recognition of a vibration.
You don’t want to change that vibration, you want to accept that vibration, to see that that vibration is a choice. Your filters are what lead to a frequency of experience of obligation, but now no longer. Recognize the thoughts telling you you “have” to do this. It is now a choice. It’s not “I have to” it’s “I can.”
Vibration is harmony always. Frequency is the experience of harmony. You’re always going to have frequency because that is the way you bend the light. You change the vibration into different wavelengths, for an experience.
All reality must have a vibration in order to experience itself. Without anything around me vibrating at a different vibration than me, I can’t experience anything. I am in perfect ‘Is-ness’ with nothingness. Existence relates to itself in vibrational resistors between two ideas. We become different vibrations to each other naturally because we are all different signatures of experience, because I am my own individual signature.
Frequency is the way you experience vibration. Feeling is the result of being human. Emotional feeling is the translation of vibration you are defining as good or bad. Accept ALL frequencies to see the harmony of frequency.
Emotions are a reactive ego “Self” to the frequency. You have identified the waves through a perception. A perception is also equal or denoted as your filter, which is your perceiving mind. Perceived is the way you feel things, or as it feels to you emotionally.
Your awareness is a unique frequency. Me and you look at each other we must notice each other. Why? Because we are vibrating at a different frequency. Therefore we are aware of ourselves through two different perspectives. Now times that by infinity and look around. Every other individual singularity is that same relationship.
Do not choose what you have found as coveting truths. Redefine reality through new truths that have a different frequency of allowance or a different frequency truth, that you attach to temporarily, and the only result is that you must relate to it differently.
Your persona that you are God was forgotten and now you are remembering.
You are not being who you really are when you are afraid, cowardly, choosing your pain, or lying. You’re not you when you kill somebody. The belief system that says you must rely on the outside of you to make you happy makes you become an ego Self of humanistic values of coveting truths.
You’re constantly shifting back-and-forth between ego identity Selves. Something happens and you say to yourself, “this makes me not happy”. It is because the belief says you’re not happy, you recognize you’re not happy you ask yourself why. This circumstance is not actually doing anything to you, it is not causing you any pain, you are receiving the pain through the coveting filter that is bending that vibration into a frequency that your body interprets as valid. And now the experience is over and you no longer shall choose that as your truth, for you have accepted it into the originator that you are, unconditional love. That vibration must be then unfiltered, because you're not distorting it with your values of separation. 'I’m allowing it as myself of Whole, who I really am.'
When you are thinking on how to do something, then your experience becomes 'how to'. Now, what are you not? Receiving in vibration what you 'have'. The vibration of 'having and 'howing' are two different focuses. So your focus is not on 'having'. When there is something coming into your reality that says this is having for you, it gets a busy signal because you were asking how. So you are 'howing' and the new unknown gift of having is left on hold. This has everything to do with allowance.
There is no 'how-to'. If you could literally start falling in love with your having, then you would be the brightest, brightest, brightest shiniest entity on this planet. This is the highest act of love. To allow your light to shine. You cannot shine with 'not haves' or 'how to's'.
When you were chosen to exist, the vibration became awareness. That signature is your persona. As you experience in the Now everything, you enhance your persona as your individual singularity. You bend light and make it your exploration.
Your persona here is more justified in your coveting systems. You are not your personality, you are your way of perceiving and expressing light. Did you ever remember a time when you thought it was impossible to do something, yet now you’re doing it? If yes, then your personality said no, but the persona said yes.
Everything you already have, you just don’t 'have it' because you are looking to have it.
Let’s look at something that you value, maybe you keep in a safety deposit box. Goods that need to be protected. You would not lock up a pair of glasses, because you believe they have no value for exchange of something. The glasses are creation, they are as valuable as $1 billion dollars, as valuable as a steak dinner. It’s all about how you bend the light, the frequency to give a value, or the experience would be better said. Nothing should have an exchange polarity value. When you all have no value of exchange then you will become 'one', because it’s then is all having and never getting.
You are now understanding that your experience is the vibration of the Now and how it’s expressed, becomes your reality. There is nothing in time that is ever going to shift your version of yourself.
If someone gave you $1 million dollars it would not change your vibration. Money doesn't change lack, acceptance changes lack. Money is have. When acceptance comes, money comes. Everything comes. Everything in the moment comes, that’s what you need to trust.
Your relationship to reality is not valued in exchange any further you’ve never had to give to receive. You want to understand is that you are constantly giving and receiving. Receiving, because it is a symbiotic relationship with creation, awareness and vibration. Awareness is your experience. Vibration is the pool of creation. Creation is vibration. You get to interpret it and express it through your persona. The way you bend the light for your experience of yourself.
Emotions are how you translate your frequency of experience, that you rely on.
Your persona always expresses. Your personality is the way it’s felt or expressed in separation.
Should you reach for an emotion?
It’s all an experience and how you feel about it, through your coveting belief systems. Once those coveting belief systems are released, you will not see any ideas of polarity measurement. You will experience all as bliss and harmony. The versions and the variations of frequency, that lie in the state of bliss, are endless. You will understand and remember the experience of your persona on how you feel about bliss, in its infinite ways to express and feel that emotion. That truth will become a new truth.
You’re always going to feel, through the idea of your personality, the structure, the one you built as an existence, that is now being demolished by your acceptance that you are God, your true nature. The idea of feeling the feelings, disseminate emotions. Emotions are labels so that you can have an experience. You will start to see the harmony in all experiences. You’re not concerned about the idea of things going wrong, because you have no ability any further to validate things. That measurement scale, giving you the emotional experience of that measured scale of right and wrong, coalesces. So your emotions, will be depleted and you only feel reality as you choose to, in your experiential Self of bliss. You will get to an emotionally undetectable state of bliss and it will overwhelm you, and consume you.
Allow yourself to take no action on the ego Selves that claim you must do this, or you must take action on that.
Always know that you’re going to have what you want, but it must be seen in the Now. You must trust that your wants are created by the conceiver mind, not your perceiving or receiving mind. It can not create original thought, so you must trust that your wants are already known as potential by your true WholeSelf. Because, your Self, Whole, created that idea thought for the receiving mind to get.
When you feel messed up, that is a good thing. That means you are disseminating values of truth that stake you, keep you, into a particular Now that moves in time.
You are here to explore. There is no longer anything that you 'have to do' or 'need to do'
Why would you reach for an emotion?
You didn’t know you could choose to not reach, that’s all. Now you are aware of the potential to not reach, that it’s a choice and the choice is the persona expressed or it’s the personality value. Choose what you will.
Channeled by Roxanne Swainhart🌺